Dr. Arjun Kamat
She kept a key to our house and we kept a key to hers — the arrangement for forty years. The kind of neighbour you simply cannot replace.
May 9, 2026
(83 years, 10 months)
Aunty Concy's Song
Maria Conceição Fernandes — Aunty Concy to the whole of Aldona — was born on 8 December 1940, the Feast of the Immaculate Conception, a coincidence her mother always said was no coincidence at all. She spent her entire life in the same house in Aldona, Goa, where the jackfruit tree in the courtyard grew taller than the roof and her kitchen was the most beloved room in the village.
Maria completed her schooling at Our Lady of Grace High School and trained as a teacher, spending 32 years at the local primary school teaching English. Former students — now doctors, engineers, and grandparents themselves — still write of her with a reverence that says everything about the impression she left.
She married Eduardo Fernandes in 1964 and they built a life of simple joy: church every Sunday, the Feast of St. Francis Xavier every December, and a table that was never too small for one more person. Eduardo preceded her in death in 2018, and Maria spent her remaining years surrounded by her four children, eleven grandchildren, and a garden she tended with ferocious devotion.
She was a gifted cook whose sorpotel, bebinca, and prawn curry were legendary in three parishes. She made her rosary every evening without fail and believed, absolutely, that prayer was the most practical thing a person could do.
Maria Conceição Fernandes passed peacefully on 22 October 2024, holding her daughter's hand, completely at peace. She is survived by her children Anthony, Clara, Joseph, and Rosa, and a community that loved her completely.
Every Christmas Eve, Aunty Concy would stay up through the night baking bebinca — twelve layers, never fewer — and by morning the whole lane smelled of coconut and ghee. She always set aside the first piece "for the neighbours" before her own family touched it. That was her way. Generosity was not something she practised. It was simply who she was.
St. Thomas Church, Aldona, North Goa, Goa 403508
St. Thomas Church Cemetery, Aldona, Goa
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